這是為了你、也是為了自己的祈禱,為巴比祈禱(微雷)

為巴比祈禱 海報
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雖然標題寫著,為巴比祈禱,不過我看完了整部電影,我覺得那位媽媽從頭到尾都不是為了巴比而祈禱,她是為了自己而祈禱的。當然在這祈禱的過程中,雖然說是為了自己而祈禱,但是祈禱的重心還是有慢慢在轉移著。


巴比的家庭是一個非常美式基督徒的家庭,而且在那個年代(197x年,抱歉因為有段時間了所以忘了),在美國的基督徒教義當中,對於同性戀者其實有非常大的禁忌,這個現象其實就可以從這幾年從美國過來的摩門教略窺一二了。就我的所知裡,摩門教的教義裡面,對於同性戀的行為本來就認為是一個觸犯了神明的行為。

而誕生在傳統基督教義的家庭中的巴比,自然必須遵守著基督教裡面的一些規定。

但是,尊重著這些規定,也令他特別的痛苦。

後來一次偶然的插曲,全家人知道了巴比的秘密,這才開始將巴比推向了另一個無法挽回的境界…

巴比的媽媽是一個非常信仰基督教的信徒,時時刻刻都會拿聖經裡面的話來教導她的孩子,當然這也包括巴比。當她知道了巴比的祕密之後,她為了挽回巴比,做了很多的努力,目的就是為了矯正巴比。可是,她是真的為了巴比而做了那些事情嗎?

看到了最後,非常的感慨…其實我可以感受得到巴比的媽媽為了她的小孩,所作出的努力,其實看得出來巴比的媽媽是很愛巴比的,可是她卻一直跳脫不出一個層次中,一直陷在一個既定的圈圈之中,她只相信聖經裡面所講的話,可是卻從沒有去質疑聖經裡面的內容是否是真實的?直到她理解了這一切,但是她卻是用她寶貝的兒子的命換來的。

現在的父母其實也是很愛著自己的孩子的,雖然用錯了方法,可是我還是覺得巴比的媽媽很偉大,雖然做醋了事情,非常的自責,可是巴比的媽媽怕類似的事情重新上演,所以決定走出來,為跟他兒子有同樣困擾的家庭,給予一個支持。

巴比死後,巴比的媽媽依舊在祈禱,不過她祈禱的,不是希望自己的巴比能夠走向正途…而是希望所有跟巴比一樣的人,都能夠活得很快樂,這是為了巴比祈禱,也是為了自己祈禱…希望全世界的家庭,不要再有第二個巴比的遭遇了~

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